Nerves.

What I don't get in life is that why do people always have trouble talking to a member of the opposite sex? I mean, come on, they are people too. They like to be talked to, and probably would like being talked to by you as well. So, both guys and girls, please stop all of this nervousness. You will mess up. I'm not trying to be a jerk or anything, it's only bound to happen. You're only human, after all. Messing up, is only a part of human nature, a part of the path of human life. Mistakes are something we can not help, but if you make them in frount of the right people, then it's not so bad. And if someone holds you to the mistake that you've made in frount of them, then I guess that you shouldn't be around that person anyways. A person that actually matters in your life would not care if you make the mistake of saying something stupid, or you just being yourself. So. Be. Yourself. It will pay off in the long run..

Why Do Girls Always Day-Dream About Love, While Guys Don't Care?

Okay, so I get it. Valentine's Day is coming up. One of the most sappiest days of the calendar year. One that I believe that the card companies made up, just so people that can buy cards for someone that they love. It is also adds on to pressure that some people really don't want, or even need. Love isn't a thing meant for pressure. It's a gift, a true miracle that only two people can share.
What I don't get though, is why do girls always expect to fall in love, every single Valentine's Day. Or day dream, only to get disapointed in the long run.
Who do we blame for this? I'd go with Hollywood. Many girls' ideas of a romance is something out of a bad chick flick, or some kind of romance novel. Have we let our minds run wild, because we have nothing else to believe in, other than some kind of scipted thing?
What ever happened to reality? Whatever happened to real life, because you only live life once. It's not a movie that you can watch and rewind, and rewatch again and again. You only live your life once, and you get only one shot to live it.
This Valentine's Day, I know I will be single. I am not excited, because I know nothing good will come out of it. I will be single at the start of it, and I probably will stay single at 11:59 P.M. that night. After all, I am a realist, and don't care about fantasy. I'm done living a world only based on dreams, and ready to live one soley based on reality.

To you. Love me.

Valentine's day is coming up, guys. It's like the cheesiest holiday on the planet, for some. For the singles, it's like a punch in the face. For the ones in relationships, it's the ultimate test, on whether or not you get your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife the right thing.
But for me, it's something different. I have some one in my life, not a boyfriend, but I don't think that he's just a friend, either. Well, I could be wrong about that.
This Valentine's Day, I wish to tell that person how I really feel about them. How I look foreward to spending my lunch days telling him what's bothering me, or making me happy. I guess that in some senses, I truely care about him, more than really any other person. That everyday, no matter how sad I am, he can turn that frown upside down. He is smart, helps me understand math, and one of the most fascinating people that I know.
What stopped me from telling him before is fear. Fear of being rejected, which I probably will. He is way too good for me, I will admit. Innocent, mainly.
I guess that deep down inside, it's time I let my heart guide me to where I want to go. So, shut up head, and let my heart guide me.

Players needa Get Played.

Have you ever had a guy that called you pretty, said you were an amazing girl, and they can't stop thinking about you no matter how hard they try (also known as feeding you lines)? It often leaves you wondering why they tell you this, or most importantly, do they actually mean it? Or is that would they say anything that they can to get what they really want. And I don't think that I have to go in much more detail for you to get what I'm talking about.
My question is, to all of those boys out there. You know the ones that will say anything just to get girls to do what they want, without no actual feelings. My question is to all of those, "men", is that do you actually think that you are doing any wrong to the girl? Once you have your sec, get your fill, if you will, you're done with whatever you were set out to do. I guess that when you have that one thing in your mind, your penis, I guess that you don't think much of anything else, and in the process, a poor girl's heart will get broken in the process. But you really don't care about that, do you?
Dear guys, to any guy whose reading this, if you like someone, you should. Don't feed them lines. If you see an opportunity with a girl, one who you don't really want to be with, one that you don't want to introduce to your friends, family, or one that you want to keep a secert, please don't date her. And if you have the girl of your dreams, don't play her. She's not stupid, and she will find out, and dump you, because she does know that she doesn't need you. And she also knows that she can do a lot better than you, so she will have no hesitation in leaving.
To girls, I advise you one thing. If a guy says something that sounds from a cheesy movie, or sends you a mainstream pop song, chances are he's fake. Most of all, trust your gut, because it knows the best about the situation better than perhaps you do. Listen up girls, don't let someone break your heart. Break theirs first.

Why?

I don't get love. I don't think that anybody really does, for that matter. Why do we put ourselves out there agaian and again, only to get hurt? After the first time, why don't we just quit, and spend the rest of our lives floating in our careers, or some other fields in our lives?
I guess that's why Ben and Jerry's is doing so well. Have you ever noticed that when you break up with someone, especially someone whose been in your life for years, and/or made an imprint on your life, you feel like complete crap, and walk around like a zombie for days on end? Is that healthy, because every woman on the face on the planet does it? I don't get it why we go back for more, when we could just live on and do more porductive things.
Like all things, love has one goal. Eternal happiness. To be happy with somone, and not to be lonely. To be able to say, that no matter what, you have someone there to make you feel better when you feel sad, when you feel like you want to express your love to them, you express it in the way that you know best.
But what if you get that love from someone else? Friends. Family. Your puppy. The list goes on and on. A relationship, it seems nowadays, is the only key thing to find love, when really it is all around you. I guess we should stop searching for this special thing that we all crave, and just start floating, because to ride with the current always leads us to dry land whenever your lost.
I guess maybe all of us, myself included, need to sit back, relax, and just float.

Dude, get the picture.

Ever have that one guy who can't get the picture that you're not interested? Aren't they annoying? You're told to ignore them, but yet you feel bad. Wierd combo, huh? They annoy you, and all you want to tell them to leave you the hell alone, but yet you feel bad in doing so. Is there a nicer, easier solution, also known as "letting them down easy"?
Maybe if you gradually make yourself busy. Of course, I've been rejected millions of times. It stung for a bit, but then you just get back up, dust yourself off and ride that horse once more. Love is like a battlefield, you know. You can never stay hurt or wounded forever.
I guess everyone will get their share of rejection. Not everything is a fairytale, or a chick flick movie scene. Nothing goes perfect, because after all, this isn't a script from someone's mind. This is life. It can be better than a movie, but itt can be worse. It's life, so therefore it's real.
I hate to be the one to tell you this, especially over a blog entry. I don't want that whole he/she said thing, so I'm just going to keep it simple. I don't like you. Maybe as a friend, but not a good friend. I wish you'd stop talking to me about how I'm so apealing and sexy to you. Or about the weather. Or hurting the damn groundhog. No. Just no. Stay classy, bro, and maybe you can get a girl. Or you can just shut up. Either option is fine with me,

What is it for?

Love is one of the most strangest emotions of all time. It makes us weak, when the person of interest is gone, and strong when you have that special someone with you, and you'll know that you will never be alone.
I ask, what is it for? All of the jars of Ben and Jerry's? The crying? The feeling like no one gets what you are feeling at this exact moment in time. All you want to do is cry until you dry up of all water, and feel nothing but pure sadness.
Is there a common goal in this love game? Is there one thing we want to win, no matter how many times we want to lose?
I don't get it. And, maybe, just maybe, I don't want to. Let me figure out what the common goal is.