Sunday, February 13, 2011

Body Lanuage-What it is, and How to Decode It

Sometimes, there is a time when words aren't enough, and what is between the lines actually means more than what is actually said, especially when it comes to the opposite sex, and the dating game. Does she/he like me? Have no fear. Here is a body language dictionary, to help end all of this confusion that you may have.
Body Language/Signs Of A Guy That Likes You:
1. He looks at you a lot.
2. If he provides you with a lot of extra attention, that means he likes you.
3. He asks you about your love life.
4.His pupils dilate when talking to you.
5. If he's fixing his hair, clothing, etc, he's preening. It's a sign that can be traced back from the wild, a sign that he likes you.
6. He holds steady eye contact- a sign that he is interested.
7. How's his position when he's talking to you? If his body is pointing towards you, then it's a clear sign that he's interested.
8. He smiles at you often.
9. He leans in, while talking to you, a sign that he wants to be close with you.
10. Do your friends say that a boy asks about you? It's a sign that he's interested, but is to shy to let you know that.
11. Does he make a special effort to do things for you, that he wouldn't do for others? That's a sign that he wants to get to know your life.
12. He actually listens to whatever you have to say.
When A Guy is not Interested he Will:
1. He will talk about himself, in order to keep from getting to know you. He will invite others in the conversation, and let his eyes wander.
2. If he isn't interested, than he will be cordial, but detached, if he's not a nice guy. If he's not much of a nice guy (then why would you like him in the first place?) he would just flat out ignore you.
3. You iniate, and he doesn't follow through.
4. He is always "too busy"- a sign that he's probably not interested.
Hope this helps all of you lovebirds out, in preperation for tomarrow. Happy day before Valentine's Day Everyone!

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