Saturday, February 19, 2011

True Friends.

Throughout your life, you will make friends (well, i hope that you do). Some will stay in your life for a while, and you will become close. Others will do scratch the surface, and then leave. But the truest friends, are like purses..the real ones will always last longer.
To me, friendship is something that's worth while. To be a friend means to stop making it all about you. Stop getting mad that your friend wants some space when her grandmother dies, and taking it personally. Stop flirting with the guy that your friend likes, just because you want the spotlight on you. Stop taking out all of your frustrations out on your friend, only to the next day to be nice again. Also, realize that if you do act bipolar, I'm not going to play along with your game. It's not all about "poor you, poor you", because after a while, I really don't want to hear about why you mad, when that's all you talk about. It's your fault that he was scared away, now move on.
True friends, in my opinon, are a give or take kind of relationship. They care about you, you care about them. When something bad happens, then you will be there for them. And when something bad happens to your friends, than you will be there for them. Always make an effort to show someone that you care about them, and their probelms. Help them, when they need it. When they have a boyfriend, and all they do is want to talk about said boyfriend, you hear them talk about it. And when the boyfriend breaks up with your friend, you are the shoulder that your friend cries on, armed with ice cream tubs, and ready to kill that boyfriend. You don't fight for their attention when they are with their boyfriend, you are the center of attention, because she keeps you in sync with everyone. You never feel like the third wheel, and you know that your friend has your back.
In life, friends will leave you. But, it is good to know that the ones that matter the most, will always have your back, always be there for you to listen to your lame stories, always there to get your crush's number, always be there whenever your sad, and will beat up the loser that breaks your heart. They are the therapists that never want to get paid. To all of my true friends out there, I love you guys. Thank you for being there for the ups and downs in this crazy rollercoaster that we call life. I dedicate this blog entry to all of you guys. You know who you are.

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