Everyone has that thing going on in their life that makes them mad, or wish that things were going differently in our lives. Whether it's a breakup, or some other things that could make someone want to go crazy, we've all been there.
Personally, I think that these times are the ones that make us stronger than before. If a guy doesn't like you, after stringing you along for months on end, then you learn to let you're feelings known. If you date a guy that wants to go farther than you want to, learn not to date the dude that everyone thinks is a creep. There is a reason why people think they are creepy, you know. It just took a little longer for you to realize than the others. If someone says they don't like what you are wearing, or what you do with your life, then they are way too controlling. Then, you learn how to look out for warning red flags, and trusting your guts. Because your gut sometimes knows better than you do.
With every bad thing that happens to you, you are given a chance to prove that you can survive. And with the help of your good friends, you can get through it. And you will. Hence, if the girl who says having girl friends causes drama, it must be because your the bitch. The ones with the friends, are not the whores, but the person who has more healthy relationships than the one with no friends.
We girls need girl friends in our life. My friends are the rocks of my life. I can not survive with out them, because friends help us through every kind of struggle.
So, the point of this, is that if your sad, lean on your friends. But, also please stop obsessing over every little thing that we have done in the past, no matter how hard it may be. Then, you will become stronger, and you will be able to do anything that you set your mind to.
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