Thursday, April 28, 2011

Outgrowing Friends.

In life, we all have friends. (I hope, otherwise you would be considered anti-social, or you just can't get along with people) As we progress through life, we tend to meet more people, and make new friends. Sometimes we have friends that we keep for life, the ones are golden, and last forever, others are like a fake Luis Vuitton, they tend to break easily.
The ones that are fake Luis Vuitton are the ones that are cheap and tend to be the ones that are once in the while. They are trendy, and like all trends, they don't last forever. Like legwarmers. The knockoff friends are the ones that typical are self-absorbed and tend to only care about themselves. They also tend to get outgrown, just like that feeling you get when you wear something that everyone else is wearing at the time, and then you look back, and think what the hell where you thinking?
It's kind of the same thing with friends. As human beings, we grow. We grow in size..(well we're not always a pint-sized baby forever) and we grow in maturity. When we are youinger we want different things, a fun time, and tend to act immature. As we get older, we tend to act in a more smarter way than what we did when we were youinger. Like the clothes you wore when you were in fifth grade, you sometimes have to look back, and be like what the hell was I thinking.
Take my friend Jenni. Over the years that I have known her, her style and her ways of thinking have changed. (In a good way, I might add) She is/was very good friends with a girl, we shall call Angelina. (Well, because she acts like her.) As they progressed in life, Jenni has grown to become a more classier guidette, and Angelina, as one of my friends would say has become an unclassy scarecrow who doesn't care that she wears pjs and acts like a clingy dryer shirt.
Then we have the "little black dress" friends. The ones that go everything. They are the ones that you'll always fall back on in your time of need, the ones that will never go out of style. After all, the true friends are the ones that pick you up, grow with you, and when you need someone to talk about how you're life sucks, they will be there for you. They will ALWAYS be there for you, just like you have that T-Shirt in your closet that when in doubt you will always fall back on. Like Charlotte, Samantha, and Jenni.
All in all in life we progress foreward, not back. Unless of course, we discover the time machine. But the true people will stick to you like glue, and the ones that aren't will drop like dead flies.

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