A Funny Thing About Fate.

Has anyone ever heard of the saying, "it's in fate's hands"? If something doesn't work out, then we quickly jump to the conclusion is fate? Whatever happened to blaming themselves for whenever something went wrong? No, we have to blame it on fate.
I guess that there is a reason why things turn out the way they do. When a door closes, a window will open. All of that fine stuff that makes a cliche end of something that sounds like you say to someone whenever you don't want to hear someone complain about their lives, or to keep them from crying because you don't know what to do when crying. But maybe, the point of all of that crap is, maybe, just maybe that it perhaps would be true.
Sometimes, we punch ourselves when we make a mistake. But maybe, just maybe it was not a mistake. After all if it's meant to happen, it will happen. 
Fear is something that we also can not help, we are not human without any kind of fear. Sometimes, that kind of fear can paralyze us for happiness. It can keep us from opening up the right way, in fear of what made that fear in the first place. The best thing that you can do about it, is stare fear in the face, and make fun of it. Then you will be able to get over it, despite the fact that it may not be easy or fun to do.
Sometimes, I guess we have to get off our fat and lazy ass, and learn how to do things for ourselves. Maybe, if we spent time trying to forget the ones that hurt us, then we can focus on the ones that deserve us the most. The ones that treat us horribly, are the ones who have scarred us horribly. The heart, after love, is like leather, a thick skin that has suffered the ups and downs, scarred from the signs of a harsh battle fought.
I've had enough of my fears blinding me. The point of all this, if you haven't been bored to tears, is maybe it's time we start creating our own fate? And stop feeling sorry for our lazy asses because the odds are were not in our favor. It's time to do something about it.