My friend Jenni had been involved with a guy named Tom. They had a fling kind of thing, if you will, or an open relatioship. They texted, and I think hung out and all of that jazz.
About a month ago, Jenni logs into facebook, and finds that Tom is in a relationship with someone else. Of course it hurts her, but she realizes that she can go and find someone else as well.
So. Tom. If i had known you, then I would personally have to say why was in your mind when you went to break her heart? You had yourself a great girl, and then you just go out and throw her away like yesterday's news. Girl's hearts are not toys, although you may think that they are.
The point of this story is for girls everywhere, like Jenni and myself. You don't need anyone who won't be there for you, or will be the one that you will end up crying over. If you end up crying for someone, then they probably don't love you, and then they don't deserve you, nor to be worthy of your tears. We all have been there, crying, eating Ben and Jerry's and basically acting like someone morning something that isn't you.
Of course, it's hard not to do that.
To all of you guys out there, chances are you have been a jerk to some girl who has done nothing wrong but loving you. I'm not hating on you, it's just the way things are. Some guys send rude text messages, and some women get divorce papers instead of flowers on Valentine's Day.
But the thing about love is we eventually find someone that is better than the one we had, an upgrade if you will. You will cry, and hurt, but you move on. You will eventually find someone else to love, and then things would be even better than they would before.
All girls out there, let's be strong together. Staying strong for the tough times helps us enjoy the sweetness of when things actually go right.
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